“When a woman tells the truth, she is creating the possibility for more truth around her.” Adrienne Rich
We are always presented with two choices when we share our truths.
One way shames others and pulls them down. The other connects people in a
deep and profound way.
The latter way is truly balm to the soul.
So, what kind of a truth teller are you?
I hope you seek to elevate all hearts, minds and souls to their noblest state.
Even with that intention, sometimes it comes out a totally different way.
There are some truths that are difficult, challenging and even painful to share. We usually either avoid sharing them altogether or they are spewed out in the unkindest fashion.
So what do we do with these truths? How can we deliver them as gems for both ourselves and others?
Speak Your Truths Graciously
Examine and re-examine your intent and attitude (mindset).
Here’s a tip that may help. Ask yourself: is what I am sharing an invitation to heal or to tear?
It’s so tempting—and very common—to think we’re out to heal.
If you wish to lead or leave something good behind, it is essential to deliver your truths not only with a good intent, but with care as when applying very strong medicine.
It takes practice, but share your truths powerfully in stories with both lightness and grace.
Remember this:
Truth is beauty.
If there is no beauty in your truth, it's better to not say it no matter how important you think it is.
Choose silence.
Take up the pen. Pour out your mental and emotional noise on paper privately.
Declutter your own thinking first.
Let the world hear your truths in a beautiful way.
There’s no need to censor your voice. Don’t abandon your truth either.
You are a gracious truth-teller.
Let the world hear your truths.
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